EP 381: 5 Tips to Having Difficult Conversations (Minisode)

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 Welcome, ladies! In this minisode of the Real Estate InvestHER Show is all about difficult conversations - and how to have successful ones. Liz and Andresa will be sharing their valuable tips on how to approach these conversations with a seek-to-understand perspective rather than an “I'm right” attitude. They'll explain the importance of being clear on facts versus stories in order to ensure effective communication and a mutually beneficial agreement. They will also discuss the need for honesty and authenticity when engaging in difficult conversations, as well as having the courage to speak your truth with kindness. Lastly, Liz and Andresa remind us that it's important to assess the intent of any conversation before engaging in it, as it could be rooted in something deeper than what is being discussed.



“You cannot avoid difficult conversations. But you can embrace them and find a way that fits your needs, and also does not hold you back from growing.” (01:00 - 01:30)

"Get clear on the facts versus the story. Your story is your perception of the person. I encourage you to start getting clear with that before having a conversation.” (02:41 - 02:57)

“Seeking to understand others before seeking to be understood is the key to fostering peace and understanding.” (05:43 - 06:14)


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